South Africa is the best place to live in the world. It is a land pregnant with opportunities, a land full of challenges and a land blessed with possibilities. What makes South Africa a great tourist’s attraction in the world is our history! We come from an undeniably worse regime system ever. The Apartheid system can never be forgotten in South African history. Apart from people killed and displaced during this regime, the biggest pain was felt by women and children. Separating fathers from their families meant that mothers assumed the role of being a head of the house. Mothers grieving for their husband’s lifeless bodies, herein lies ahead was a misty road of uncertainty.
August 9, 1951 women challenged the Apartheid regime about the law that stated that a black person has to carry a pass (permit) to be in the city. I am not going to dive into the details of this story. But on that day women changed the cause of history in South Africa. When a Rainbow Nation was formed in 1994 under the leadership of Nelson Mandela, August 9 was then marked as the women’s day. However the country realized that women were still facing issues ranging from domestic violence, professional marginalization to social discrimination, the country then marked the whole month of August as the women’s month. During this month awareness campaigns highlighting these issues are held….
With that history in the backdrop, I want to speak about women in the entire universe. Let me clear my throat!
ADAM AND EVE STORY
Created in Adam’s dreams, she became Adam’s reality as he opened his eyes! ( Just for a second imagine if you were Adam?) You go to sleep seeing the most amazing face of God and when you wake up you see the face of Eve!! I am sure Adam was like “put me to sleep again God please”, because every time he goes to sleep he wakes up to an amazing face. Now guys I personally think that God created us as an experiment! And with women God was an expert in creation! So ladies do not be stunned at guys if they do not understand you, we were asleep when you were made, that is why we don’t get you (ha ha)! And guys don’t try to figure women out; you have no idea as to what kind of conversation Eve had with God in Adam’s sleep. They could have been laughing at him, who knows?
Women are the phenomenal species, powerful and simply amazing. The look in Adam’s face when he woke up to see Eve for the first time is the same look on guy’s face when they see a woman they like! The society has a tendency of undermining things that should not be undermined, the society tries to normalize things that were not meant to be normal and that is the biggest threat to our existence, however that is a topic for another day. Imagine carrying a life for 9 months! In that period you live for two people, yourself and the person inside you. That responsibility is too great. Women have a power to turn men into little babies and guess what? We love it.
I am pleased with what the modern society is doing in glorifying women. Women should be glorified! Because they are the glory of creation. That is why the idea of women in the army is rather very attractive attractive. I like women who are action heroes in movies, because they are beautiful, smart and dangerous. For over 10 years I worked as a community developer. My biggest passion was training young people. My favorite subject was teaching the young boys about women, and the difference between men and women. This is because the entertainment industry is rather diminishing the dignity of women. Limiting them to sexual subjects.
Like any other guys, I used to be hooked on porn for a very long time. How did I break free? No it was the preacher or psychologist that helped me, but it was the way the women were treated in those porn movies. It was about guys showing their masculinity through enslaving women sexually. I hated that! When it got to the type of porn I liked, the women would sound like there were in so much pain. So I slowly moved to solos, you know what I am talking about? But then that was erotic not attractive! My mind would wonder what kind of women who display her body this way, they do not respect their bodies, and that was a turn off for me. I slowly shifted to soft porn, something that is allowed to be in your TV screens in a form of music videos and movies. But same thing happened, male artists portraying women as sex objects or female artists showing no respect to their bodies. In that I lost all interest to any form of porn! We will talk about these sexual subjects later.
The reason I am revealing so much details about my previous sexual preferences before is because, the society has normalized something that should never be normalized, the public display of a women body! I personally believe that we fall prey to people that are perverts and drug addicts living in Hollywood or wherever and those are the people that direct these movies and music videos.
The women body is the most sacred thing ever in the universe! Think about that for a while. In a society where marriage is discredited by liberal minds, we see the degenerating in value of woman. Why I say that is because, there is nothing as a precious as a woman! I remember my ex fiancé and I making love, how I appreciated her giving herself to me, it was the greatest honor.
If you are a young lady reading this, remember this: It should the greatest honor for a guy to find himself in between your legs! Woman is her man’s glory; she is her man’s crown jewel! That is why it is not normal to have multiple partners. But we have normalized it in the name of fun! Women will ask you “are we not allowed to go around and have fun just like men do?” the answer is no! The reason why men go around to so many women is because some woman out there has decided to lower her value, she has decided to disregard her worth, and she has decided to lower herself below a waist of any sex crazy guy. Does that mean that you also need to match that? How low that aspiration is? Maintain your worth, keep or increase your value, like attracts like, a man of statue will come through. A man who is not going take from you, but a man that will give to you, lay his life down and serve you well.
Women our existence depends on you. Wherever you are take time to join South Africa in celebrating a woman. I thank you.